Tumblr break
Sep. 21st, 2011 12:28 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
aceeccentricI downloaded BlockSite for Firefox just to make myself actually keep off of Tumblr during my self-imposed Tumblr hiatus. I just need a week or so... but I kept checking, so. I've installed BlockSite and taking Tumblr off it will take extra effort, which will hopefully help keep me from doing it on impulse. (Also, it might give me some space to actually write a Wordpress post. Though I wish I had some inspiration for it.)
There are people on Tumblr I don't want to leave "alone," that I want to keep up with because I know that the anti-ace stuff hits them hard, but I feel weird feeling that because I don't know them that personally and there are other people who follow them and will (hopefully) back them up if they feel particularly down.
I don't know what the word for that is. I tried to write a Wordpress post about it a while back, but I ended up floundering and feeling ridiculous about it. I feel ... connected? to the people whose sites I read. But sometimes I don't even know if they even know who I am, or recognize me, or read anything that I write. I realize I can see who follows my Tumblr, but that doesn't mean they read anything I put there or feel anything about me. I get defensive of these people and want to protect them and join in conversations so they don't have to be alone.
But I feel weird about that. They're not friends -- I don't know them that well, or personally at all. There's a limited amount of verifiable interaction, where we're liking posts or reblogging or commenting or what have you. It would be overstepping to call these people my friends, and there's a likelihood they would find it weird if I did.
So, why do I feel like I'm walking away from ... well, friends?
There are people on Tumblr I don't want to leave "alone," that I want to keep up with because I know that the anti-ace stuff hits them hard, but I feel weird feeling that because I don't know them that personally and there are other people who follow them and will (hopefully) back them up if they feel particularly down.
I don't know what the word for that is. I tried to write a Wordpress post about it a while back, but I ended up floundering and feeling ridiculous about it. I feel ... connected? to the people whose sites I read. But sometimes I don't even know if they even know who I am, or recognize me, or read anything that I write. I realize I can see who follows my Tumblr, but that doesn't mean they read anything I put there or feel anything about me. I get defensive of these people and want to protect them and join in conversations so they don't have to be alone.
But I feel weird about that. They're not friends -- I don't know them that well, or personally at all. There's a limited amount of verifiable interaction, where we're liking posts or reblogging or commenting or what have you. It would be overstepping to call these people my friends, and there's a likelihood they would find it weird if I did.
So, why do I feel like I'm walking away from ... well, friends?
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Date: 2011-09-22 08:55 pm (UTC)I remember the first ontd_feminism post. I skimmed a couple of comments but backed out pretty quickly, and I only knew about it because half the people who knew me from LJ were sending me messages not to go there.
Usually it seems that even with all the breaks people are taking there's some people around, so at least there's something in the way of potential support if not as big a group as there could be. And we did get group_x up for those inclined to use it, so at least that's something.